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I Disappoint My Dad
A blog where I post my thoughts and commentary that upset the cultural patriarchal forces around us, including perspectives on dis/ability, gender, work, and the like. Find out more in my introductory blog post here.


On Becoming a Crier
I don't know if it's the inner misogynist in me or if I just had difficulties with emotions when I was younger, but I wasn't much of a crier growing up. I had seen many a movie, played many games, and listened to many songs. The only media I remember crying during was Toy Story 3 , Pokémon Mystery Dungeon: Explorers of Darkness , and Hachi. Even then, my cries were like a single manly tear, barely shed and shed in silence. I felt tough. Fast-forward 15 years and now I feel li
Feb 225 min read


RadicalICEd
Spiritual Gifts In my early adulthood, I wanted to know what my spiritual gift(s) was. Spiritual gifts, according to their mythology when I grew up, were traits a Christian was born again with that could be used to bless God, others, and themselves. The Bible lists several examples in Corinthians and Romans: healing (1 Corinthians 12:9) prophecy (1 Corinthians 12:10) speaking in tongues (1 Corinthians 12:10) interpreting tongues (1 Corinthians 12:10) administration (1 Corinth
Jan 255 min read


They're touching & I don't want them to anymore.
Dear co-workers and scholars, This is going to be a difficult blog post for me, so I appreciate your patience and willingness to hear me...
Sep 4, 20255 min read


Shiny Unhappy People
trigger warning: descriptions of physical, emotional, and sexual abuse Amazon's new season of Shiny Happy People focuses on Teen Mania ,...
Aug 17, 20258 min read
Good Enough
After my prospectus was approved in May, I moved forward with my dissertation research as best as I could. I've also been preparing for...
Jul 27, 20254 min read


The Silent Privilege Walk
What is a Privilege Walk? In my teaching credential program in 2017, one of my classes had me and my classmates perform a privilege walk...
Jul 13, 20256 min read


(Def)end DEI
Recently, the US Department of Education created a webpage to EndDEI . The site says " this submission form is an outlet for students,...
Mar 2, 20253 min read


Woes of a budding Researcher
I often distract myself from the woes of the world by surrounding myself with research and non-fiction reading. Unfortunately, this...
Feb 9, 20253 min read


Rejection Sensitivity & Time Off
Rejection sensitivity is striking again in my life, but this time it is in my personal life rather than work. Let me tell you, feeling...
Feb 2, 20258 min read


The Time to End Bullying
advertised photos with scribbled edits in hair, make-up, and clothing (2012) The Story The first thing I did in 2025 was curse someone....
Jan 12, 20253 min read


Red Flags: (A)sexuality & Respect
As the year comes to a close, I'll be doing a short blog series on red flags I've encountered in the past and what to avoid in the...
Dec 30, 20246 min read


Red Flags: Me versus Family
As the year comes to a close, I'll be doing a short blog series on red flags I've encountered in the past and what to avoid in the...
Dec 22, 20244 min read


Red Flags: Broken Promises
As the year comes to a close, I'll be doing a short blog series on red flags I've encountered in the past and what to avoid in the...
Dec 16, 20245 min read


Red Flags: Secrets
As the year comes to a close, I'll be doing a short blog series on red flags I've encountered in the past and what to avoid in the...
Dec 8, 20244 min read


Needing & Meeting My First Navigator
This week, I finally met with a certified navigator. For those who don't know, navigators are certified to help people navigate the...
Dec 1, 20243 min read


Structures & Disruptors
Despite having mental diagnoses during my time in undergraduate school, I didn't formally start using university disability services...
Nov 24, 20244 min read


Costs Urge Me to be a Recluse
Up until 2015, I didn't really get the appeal of attending large events like conventions, conferences, and concerts. My interest started...
Nov 11, 20246 min read


Blocks
It's been a couple weeks since I last posted on the blog. Today's post is about blocks: all the things that are in the way of me doing...
Oct 28, 20244 min read


Not All Cats are Good ESAs
Thirty-Three (the orange cat) & Fifty-Five (the brown tabby) cuddled together in a cat bed. ESAs (or emotional support animals) are...
Oct 6, 20243 min read


At Lease-t I'm Almost Out of Here
A few weeks ago, I shared the insanity of where I am renting an apartment and the stress it has caused me since late June. This week, I'm...
Sep 29, 20245 min read
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